[From The Bridal Box– All Your Bridal Needs @ One Place]
When your ship is set to sail to that horizon of marital bliss, and it can be said you’re going steady with your second-half, priorities shift. You now plan for work, finances, ways to become more respectable as you get older, like that promotion, the house, the Benz, and sometimes marriage and kids. You get that you’ll be missing out on some stuff. This stuff is not all that important or necessary, but it does make you go, “I’ll never do that again!” or worse, “I never got to do that!”
The truth of the matter is that the sexual stuff, well intimacy in general is the one of those things that are very important part of being married. Love is a sexual companionship with someone for whom you care deeply for and trust, who can care deeply about your happiness and trust you in turn. Sexual stuff involves doing all sorts of stuff with your SO, not just the actual deed.
So here’s some help. If you swear to follow these couples’ special New Year resolutions, you won’t end up feeling low about all that other stuff. You’ll have to remember that some of these can be done once a month and some of these can be done on weekends, or once in six months. It depends on you two.
So, repeat after me,” I swear to…”
1. Get Out Together
Get out of your home and go wherever the two of you want to, a couple’s penthouse suite or a seedy (but comfy and preferably clean) roadside motel, the great outdoors, a lake house, another city, it could be anywhere. And then do all sorts of forbidden, disturbing, revolting, creepy, unnatural, kinky stuff together. You can even experiment if you want to. Or you can just go vanilla, if that’s your thing.
If you’re not going for safety first, then keep a first aid kit handy. Don’t get that rough that you’ll need to go to the doc, like that one Indian couple who used the Puri-frying ladle handle. And whatever you do don’t use the space invader. I mean that, you’ll end up at the hospital inevitably, if you do.
This step involves experimenting with all sorts of things, and that may include stuff that makes you high. Consent is essential.
Base Rules: If you’re new to this, take it slow. No means no. Stop means stop.